PROUD

Current mood: optimistic
Category: Friends

Penna: Lynna
Released: 250406
Mood: GLAD

TAME one word that strikes my mind over a chat with one of my confidante. Taming is it a simple task? Taming an animal may be easy but how tamin a person. Male or female? I remember one day an Arab male told me about taming a man is not difficult. Women are created with his left rib under his heart so by being hard will not do any good to him but if soft approach is used in using the specialty of being a women, men can listen and follows what they really need to do.

Taming is not asking a man to listen or nod to anything women says but to make them just being able to listen, understand, share, communicate, compromise and it goes vice versa to women too. As we all know being hard will NEVER pays anything. Tackling a person with sensibility and softness or kindness is the simplest way.

A friend of mine was saying "it's difficult to tame me" he said. I smile and said yes. Only the right person with the right attitude, with the right motive will make him tame or mellow and follow the wave of love or relationship. Its the matter of time and right individual. She has to understand him first. Time will tell, no matter how long it will be the right person will come.

He may be outspoken and knows many things outright. With the facts and knowledge he has, some people may says he is ARROGANT. For those who dont know him, yes, will give that kind of statement. But the fact is, what he says was based on what he knows and understands from what he reads and what he gets around him. Point of learning for him never stops. Feeding himself with knowledge will make him feel better than anyone else. Listening to him always makes me fascinated. Why? He never failed to feed and never feel stingy to explain should I not understand even a simple task. He will simplify further. Today he gave me something to recite to be used when someone is angry or even going for an interview. Some people wont even bother to share a good deed with others when it is good for themselves.

But him, in his mind full of ideas, in his chest full of knowledge where he shared with his close friend who knows him for good or for bad.

He is PROUD to be who he is. One attitude that is difficult to find in anyone. Proud of being an individual, proud of being himself, proud of what he knows, proud to share, proud to retreat anytime he needs to pull out and etc.

When he knows things wont work according to base and facts he will retreat without hesitation. Knowing that future will give him more problems "its better to be sick now then later" he said. One hell of guts to do it for some people but it is just a small matter to him.

Proud to know him, proud to be in his selection of friends, proud to be given a chance to understand the difficulties and necessities of the way being him and his way of thinking. Of all I am blessed to know one in a million of alpha male with different kind of attitude and behaviour.

We continue later. To him, I am honoured to know you, honoured to be still in the circle and thank you for your patience to explain things to me and making me understand what value of life is. Im GLAD!!!

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