Compassion

Penna: Lynna
Released: 090606
Mood: Cheerful

Category: Panas

"Is is not about the about the size of her, not that she no longer beautiful, it is not the love has gone. I still do love her. Yes, she has been there for me very long since and still tho. But whats lacking now is attention. Togetherness"

"I love to do things together with her. But she is always busy and had not have time for me. When she reach home, she reach for the kids and her passion showed more towards them"

1st scenario of working wife.

"Im tired and hungry, but there isnt a sign of her waiting for me to eat together or at least just to pour a cool water for me to drink, to ease my thirst or tiredness."

Slowly he make his way upstairs finding her sleeping soundly next to her kid tight in her arms. He walk to the bathroom, washing his face, doing his routine and come out. The sound of his stomach that urge to be fed just now no longer playing the same sound. He went down on the TV and watch, while his eye scrutinizing the area.

It is well kept, tidy but empty without any feel. The clock shows 10.30pm. She manage the kids well by then all of them have slept soundly leaving the place quiet.

In his mind.... "should i go out and eat or just have teh tarik? Should i call my friend accompanying me or...." He thinks and think till he slept on the sofa.

2nd scenario...

Where does it goes wrong? Where does the passion go? Where is the excitement of two people waiting and meeting each other? There is so many question left unattended. So many things that fail to achieved and reason being, they communicate less now. Very much lesser.

There is no phone calls, no sms, no tickle, no notes on the fridge should she need to sleep early for early morning meetings or too tired with house chores and managing kids.

Do we blame this husband when he found someone out there to amused him somehow with conversation over coffee or teh tarik. Was he wrong to just have a company to talk, to indulge something that he cant have at home.

The situation was never the same years back when they are still courting or few years in the marriage.

Why woman change?? Was it because of the man failed to look at the woman's need or understand what she want. Was there communication to understand both needs and then shared amongst each other?.

"Now i come into terms, she do what she likes, i do what, i like as long as both know each other roles".

Is that what a marriage is? Is that how two way communication reached?

On the other hand....

Those housewife which continue with their attitude now see him lesser in a day or may be did not at all and he works 7 days a week too. Not accounting outstations and overseas.

On another account...
Him keep it stays in his heart and mind and sulking and regretting why he married her in the first place. He tried talk her out, take her to places they love to frequent before, helping her in everything at home, give his time for the children while she took her nap. But at the end of the day she is still cold, rigid and timid.

Whom to be blame when this case happen? Never ask anyone? Ask yourself!