Love Process

What is love process …
In loving stages, first is to fall in love when emotion takes place. Where buying attention from both party happens. Date, sms, call, buying present, flowers, chocolate etc.. in order to show the interest to one another. This emotional stage will take some time till you get to know each other and then the relations took place when both is ready to take off to next stage where we talk about future and marriage. Trying to understand each other feelings, emotions, bad and good, soft and hard part of oneself, find the true colours of the individual before getting into the marriage process. This process need a lot of understanding where after the introductory loving process takes place.
Next the bondage are tying prenuptial knot where its called responsibility towards one another, parents and family. All of the value in knowing, sharing, communication and understanding in the first two stages holding the relations together. It sounds easy and simple but try to go deep in the situation…
When we discuss my mind was racing and pacing over the situation of me way back 14 years ago… I realize I don’t have all the process accordingly.. and now blaming fate for everything that happen yesterday… I was wrong in the beginning and that’s is why it is not functioning well..
Some might find love only after they are married but perhaps with someone else.. difficulties comes when the needs arise and love did affect oneself to make a big decision…
So guys and gals don’t forget all the stage above before you commit yourself into big responsibility…
Affection… It came only after both are happily married where the courting stages passed, the understanding part passed then where you build your love, your affection, your bondage to one another…
Passion and desire meets through lovemaking and a new stranger came in the act of love between two person nine months later where tiny little creature carries both characteristics of the parents… Isn’t that the beauty of love?
But most people marry for wrong reason.. Marry because they have to, force to, scared of doing sin, lonely, thinking their old and no one will marry them once the time past..
Every one has their own reason… Precisely one should only get married after they are fully ready of what happen yesterday which taking them towards today and expecting the new of tomorrow.. Everyday new thing happen and it makes one little wiser to clear their mind of the path they are going to build next..
Marriage are bondage where communication, sharing and understanding plays a big role in it and never think that after marrying one you can fall in love again where you need another woman presence in your life to make it more exciting and lively…
Fairness in having more than one is painful..Can one be fair to himself, 1st/ 2nd wife, both children, both families? Its greater and bigger responsibilities plus a big challenge there. How one could achieve in making both wife accepting each other.. Only one man, one leader, one commander who has big courage, wiser thinking would be able to do it… One success polygamy marriage is to make all of them stay under one roof..
Would you guys and gals think about it?
All of you are the owner of yourself. Your listen to your heart before you can do it. You ask yourself what do you want before you commit to it. And only then you would be able to achieve what do you call happiness and success in life… All this are within you. GOOD LUCK!!!