Love

“I love you”, he told her. “I’ve loved you for ages. I can’t say since the day we met because that day I just lusted after you. But then I loved you”
She smiled.
“And I’ll keep on loving you. No matter what…”
“Will you?”
“Success means nothing unless you’ve got someone to share it with”
“You think?”
“Of course,” he said passionately. “It’s one of thing I have in mind always. The fact people really do prize happiness and love ahead of everything else”
“Ahead of Mercedez Benz Kompressor? She named his favourite car.
“Miles ahead”.
“Ahead of around the world holiday?” He’d always wanted to do that.
“Absolutely”
“Ahead of … “
“Ahead of everything,” he told her firmly.
She looked into his eyes, an even deeper blue than the sea outside, and then she touched him gently on the side of the cheek.
“Marry me,” he said

How many of us thought of the conversation above would come real. And how many of us would think before saying “I love you and marry me sweetheart”.

Sad, but phenomenon now is to be in love and get married because they want to make it real. As if they don’t think of the commitment and responsibilities will take place. And a few years later marriage become shattered and divorce take place. Why because they don’t understand the marriage reason in the first place.

Marrying because of love, to confirm it you are mine and im yours, without weighing what marriage could bring today, tomorrow and future obstacles and consequences. Marrying just because to secure some circumstances for individual reason, perhaps not to commit to sin and etc.

Many people married for wrong reasons. They marry too young without even knowing what should they expect while in the marriage. Many don’t marry second wife or second time for reason that they wont take the commitment.

The responsibilities are far more expensive than the relationship itself. And for those who think with emotions will end up a marriage soon before they even think the step will lead to another disaster.

Perhaps some would say before marrying “who would be responsible if we commit into sin?”. “Who would help single mothers if we don’t”, who is this and who is that …”

But the fact is, does one take a very good reason why they should fall in love and get married. Religion don’t allow living together without marrying but it does happen nowadays. Why? Do we know real reason why they take that step? Do we know why they are comfortable without being married?

Only you yourself can answer that question. One should ask her/ himself why should one get involve and later get married? Question shouldn’t be ask to another but yourself!

Take a time to think about it, reflect it to you and be objective about it…

Poor soul who has been married but feel stuck and cant go out due to so many reasons tagging them in the marriage especially children, families and last but not least because they do really love each other but has lost the sparks. Why?